We all hate that one BFF that tags along with our girlfriends whenever and wherever we go. Even though you know youâd rather die than be with her if she were the last being on the face of earth, you have to put up with her. More so because you know how much influence she has on your girlfriendâs mind. You cannot push her off the scene either. She is the vital organ your girlfriend cannot do without. Your relationship is not in safe hands and you must do all you can to get her âsoul sisterâ to like you. Youâre a man and if you can know all about tanks and machine guns, turning the tables in your own favour in this case shouldnât be too hard. It is your relationship and if anybody should have full control over it, it should be you, not just her.
Show Interest
© Shutterstock
Girls crave for flattery. Give it to your girlfriend and your way is almost clear. No matter how close she is to your girlfriend, if she feels good around you she wouldnât really care how exactly you are to her friend. In fact, she might just take pride in the fact that she gets more attention than her friend.
Donât Overdo It
© Shutterstock
While we tell you how to win her over, we must also warn you of a girlâs unpredictability. Women are weird creatures we can never totally understand. You may compliment her, but save the more flirtatious lines for your girlfriend.
Act Innocent
© Thinkstock
Act innocent all the time. One mistake or a hint of anything but a good intention and she tosses out of the scene before you can blink an eyelid. Every muscle you move, every word you speak will be judged. Act innocent even if youâre not. Convince her that there is nothing but love in your eyes for her best friend.
No PDA
© Shutterstock
You may occasionally kiss your girl on the cheek or caress her face but beware of the devil around. She has come prepared to judge every move of yours. Too much public display of affection may make the BFF uncomfortable and make it to the âOh My God Did He Just Do That?â list.
Do Not Hit On Her
© Shutterstock
The situation gets worse when youâre on a date with your girlfriend, but her best friend looks hotter in that tiny dress. Youâre looking for ways to get your hands on her. Stop. Donât ever think of doing that. This one move could ruin your relationship.
Be Chivalrous
© Shutterstock
Girls love chivalry. All it would take for you to melt her heart is to open a car door or pull the chair for her. Show gentlemanly etiquette not just to her, but to your girlfriend too. Ask her if she is too cold and wants your jacket or if sheâd like another drink.
But Donât Let Her Take Control
© Shutterstock
While your purpose is to smooth-talk her into liking you, you do not want her to think youâre a pushover. Agreeing with everything she says, letting her decide what youâre going to eat is just going to make her think youâre spineless.
Be Well Spoken
© Images Bazaar
No matter how long the waiter takes to get you the order, or if you find insects in your food, do not raise your volume. She wouldâve definitely dedicated a column in your report card to âHow He Behaves With People Lower In Statureâ. Learn how to mince your words around her and always be polite.
Article Source : http://www.mensxp.com/relationships/understanding-women/21044-get-your-girls-best-friend-to-worship-you.html
